Growing up, my family had an antique star that we lovingly placed on top of our Christmas tree every year. It was a little rickety and multicolored, but when we plugged it in, it transformed our living room. The star cast its warm glow across the walls, dancing with the rhythm of our favorite Christmas songs. My brother and I would sit in the dimly lit room, sipping hot cocoa, letting the beauty of that little star fill us with a quiet sense of wonder. To me, that star wasn’t just a decoration—it was a symbol of Christmas joy, lighting the way to something greater.
This morning, my Advent calendar presented me with a tiny star, and it immediately took me back to those cozy evenings. Stars, after all, are meant to guide. They point us to something—or Someone—beyond ourselves. Today’s little star invites us to reflect on two important questions: _Who is guiding me closer to Jesus?_ and _Am I helping guide others to Him as well?_
A Star for the Journey
In today’s Gospel, we encounter Mary during one of the most pivotal moments in salvation history: the Annunciation. The angel Gabriel announces that she will conceive and bear the Son of God. Mary, full of grace, responds with courage and humility, saying, _“May it be done to me according to your word.”_ She allows herself to be guided by God’s will, even though the path ahead is unknown and daunting.
Like Mary, we are all on a journey. Advent reminds us that we are not traveling alone. God provides “stars” to guide us—faithful friends, wise mentors, Scripture, and the sacraments. These lights point us toward Jesus, helping us navigate life’s uncertainties. But just as we are guided, we are also called to be guiding stars for others.
Becoming a Guiding Light
Today’s “O Antiphon” proclaims: _“O Key of David, opening the gates of God’s eternal Kingdom: come and free the prisoners of darkness!”_ Jesus is the ultimate Light who frees us from sin and leads us to eternal life. Yet, He calls us to reflect His light in the world. Like the star of Bethlehem that led the Magi to Jesus, we are called to lead others to Him through our words, actions, and love.
But let’s be honest—it’s not always easy to be a guiding star. Sometimes we feel more like a burnt-out bulb than a beacon of hope. That’s why Advent is so important. It’s a time to rekindle our own light through prayer, reflection, and acts of charity. When we reconnect with Christ, His light shines through us, even in the simplest ways.
Finding Joy in Guiding Others
Advent’s third week invites us to rediscover joy through acts of service, justice, and love. There’s a special kind of joy in helping others see God’s goodness—whether through a kind word, a helping hand, or simply being present for someone who’s struggling. These small acts of love can shine brightly in the lives of others, pointing them toward Jesus.
The Responsorial Psalm today reminds us: _“Let the Lord enter; he is the king of glory.”_ By letting Christ’s light transform us, we become His instruments, helping others find their way to Him.
A Practical Challenge
Who has been a guiding star in your life? Take a moment to thank God for the people, experiences, and graces that have drawn you closer to Him. Then, think about how you can be a star for someone else. Is there a family member who needs encouragement? A friend who’s searching for meaning? A stranger who could use a small act of kindness? Pray for the courage to shine Christ’s light in their lives.
Follow the Star
The tiny star from my Advent calendar is a simple reminder that we’re all part of a greater story—a story of light breaking into darkness, of God guiding His people to salvation. As we prepare for Christmas, let’s ask ourselves: _Who is guiding me closer to Jesus?_ And more importantly, _How can I help guide others to Him?_
Just as the star on our family Christmas tree filled our home with warmth and beauty, your light can bring joy and hope to the world around you. So, let your light shine brightly. Be a star that leads others to the King of Glory. And as you follow Him, may your life reflect His eternal light.